How do you make people feel?
A while back my wife mentioned to me that someone from our church thought I didn't like them. Or maybe that I was mad. Or irritated.
This person is one of the good guys and I have nothing but admiration for the way they pursue life. But the message I was sending didn't say that. It said something else.
Disposition is not an excuse. If your relaxed posture is cold, bitchy, pissed or angry then change it. The way you make others feel is the way you're acting.
Good intentions on the inside are of little good unless they're recognized on the outside.
If you believe people are valuable in God's eyes they should feel that way in yours.